Open Mail Settings → Accounts
In Apple Mail, go to Mail → Settings (macOS Ventura or later) or Mail → Preferences (older macOS). Click the Accounts tab. In the left column, select the account you use as your working inbox (e.g. iCloud).
Desktop email clients like Apple Mail, Spark, and Thunderbird can use OhRelay as the outgoing SMTP server. Once configured, you keep receiving mail in your normal inbox and can send replies through OhRelay without setting up a separate sender for each domain address.
You only need to configure one gateway per working inbox. All your domain addresses route through the same sender.
You'll add OhRelay as a custom outgoing SMTP server to your existing iCloud (or Gmail) account. Apple Mail doesn't support standalone SMTP-only accounts — it must be attached to an existing account.
In Apple Mail, go to Mail → Settings (macOS Ventura or later) or Mail → Preferences (older macOS). Click the Accounts tab. In the left column, select the account you use as your working inbox (e.g. iCloud).
Click the Server Settings tab on the right. Find the Outgoing Mail Server (SMTP) dropdown, click it, and choose Edit SMTP Server List…
Click the + (plus) button. In the Server Settings tab, fill in:
smtp.ohrelay.comThen switch to the Advanced tab and:
587Click OK to save.
Back in Server Settings, use the Outgoing Mail Server (SMTP) dropdown to select OhRelay. Click Save. All outbound mail from this account will now go through OhRelay.
When composing or replying, Apple Mail will normally send through the OhRelay SMTP server you configured for that account. In many setups, you don't need to keep selecting the gateway again for each message. OhRelay delivers the message with the correct domain sender address, and recipients never see the gateway address.
✅ Tip: If your client exposes a From selector, leaving the account on the OhRelay-backed sender is usually enough. The important part is that the SMTP server is already routed through OhRelay.
Any mail client that supports custom SMTP will work with OhRelay. The settings are always the same.
smtp.ohrelay.com587 (STARTTLS) or 465 (TLS)Gmail is the stricter case: you typically choose the gateway from the From field when sending. Apple Mail and many desktop clients usually keep using the configured SMTP server once it's attached to the account, so daily sending feels more automatic.
The good news is the same either way: you only add one gateway address per working inbox. All your domain addresses — no matter how many — are handled through that single gateway.
Gmail works great with OhRelay — it just needs one extra setting.